Great questions to ask yourself as you consider godly change
From the book How People Change by Tim Lane and Ted Tripp
HEAT: What is your situation?
THORNS:
           Bad Root: What do you want and believe? (What are your idols?)
           Reap: What are the consequences?
           Bad Fruit: How do you react?
CROSS: Who is God and what does he say and do in Christ?
FRUIT:
           Good Root: Seek God [...]
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